Belonging
The fear of not belonging is an ancestral wound that goes back through your lineage to ancient times.
What is your relationship to Belonging?
As humans, belonging is a core desire and need… and to NOT feel that sense of belonging can be one of our deepest wounds.
The wound of not belonging is deeply tied to the core wounds of rejection, abandonment, unworthiness, and betrayal.
We as humans want to belong not just because it “feels nice” or makes us happy… it goes MUCH deeper.
Ancestrally, the fear of not belonging is linked to a fear of death and a need for survival.
We not only want to KNOW where we come from — we also want to FEEL a sense of support from our village, or that we have healed how we feel towards where we come from.
Villages of support and communities of care are so essential today, and greatly lacking from many of our lives.
While many of us have experienced so much ancestral trauma that our family doesn’t feel like a safe space, we still need to heal our relationship to our ancestors in general.
This is essential to creating a sense of safety in the body & nervous system, and belonging in our hearts and spirits.
Your ancestors’ shoulders are the foundation on which you stand in so many ways… and your foundation impacts everything else.
When we don’t feel a sense of connection or safety in our lineage, that sense of not belonging on a very deep core level touches all other areas of our life.
Ancestral trauma is the root cause of so many of us not feeling a sense of belonging, and never quite feeling safe in our nervous systems — because on a subconscious level, not belonging equates to death.
I am holding the prayer for us to feel a DEEP sense of belonging on the earth, in our bodies, and in our lineages.
No matter what you feel in relationship to your lineage AND your core wounds (such as unworthiness, abandonment, & rejection) — you CAN heal it!
You are WORTHY of feeling a deep sense of belonging in community and on this earth!
Does this resonate with you on one or many levels?
A core part of healing the fear of not belonging is to connect to your wise and well ancestors and feel the village of support that is always here for you.
Feeling connected ton your village and your roots is an emotional, psychological, and spiritual need that your ancestors knew well.
Think about your ancestors who lived in villages or tribes. If an ancestor of yours didn’t feel they belonged, they could be cast away from the community…
To be cast away from the protection of the village literally meant death.
If you don’t feel a connection to your roots, your healed ancestors, and community, on some level in your nervous system, you will carry a fear of not belonging.
Feeling that you don’t belong in a situation can trigger a subconscious fear of death, manifestation as social anxiety, self-consciousness, or self-doubt.
A core part of healing the fear of not belonging is to connect to your wise and well ancestors and feel the village of support that is always here for you.
When you’re connected to the power of your ancestry, you feel a deep sense of belonging in who you are that no one can take away from you.
No matter where you go, you are home because you know who you are and where you come from.
Are you ready to connect to heal yourself and connect to your ancestors for guidance, support, protection, wisdom, and love?
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Are you ready to break the pattern?
🧬 Lineage Of Love 🧬 is a 6-week ancestral healing course which will help you begin to unwind the patterns at the root — your ancestral lineages.
It includes 6 modules of live calls, deep healing meditations, e-book guides full of journal prompts, and more essential teachings.
This course is currently on a sliding scale payment system through June 16th, 2022, and 100% of donations received will go toward an earth-honoring charity, Pachamama Alliance.
